Registration for these longer discovery sessions is only  available until Sept. 31

on skype, phone or in person

Is someone you love driving you crazy? Or maybe your relationship is “okay,” but there is a juiciness… a depth… that is missing.

You feel a “deadness,” there — a lack of real, deep contact. And it really bothers you. You know you are not really being yourself. You hold things back, you hide, you avoid being real and transparent.

Now, if you’re reading this, I am also willing to bet that you have some kind of spiritual practice, even if you don’t like the word “spiritual.”

But that spiritual practice isn’t really helping here. It’s like something else is needed, but you don’t know what it is. So you just kind of go along, wishing that things were different, trying to settle for things the way they are.

I want to meet you, in the place of your wishing. This longing for deep connection, for intimacy, is something that needs to be deeply respected. It’s not something to turn away from, to talk yourself out of.  We experience great joy and freedom when we can dissolve the obstacles that prevent us from being real, open and undefended with others. When we find out how to be ourselves, without hiding or holding back, a natural vitality and brilliance start to shine in us.

You can get stuck in your old ways of relating for a long time. And here is the good news: this capacity for deep connection, for living intimacy, is not something we are born with. It’s something that most of us have to learn, and keep learning. Which means unlearning a lot of what has been passed down to us by our family, our culture and our ancestors.

This learning and unlearning belongs to the work we can do together, based on a radical and profound psycho-spiritual practice. It lets you discover a new way of relating, of being transparent, bit by bit. You will feel it emerging, right in the middle of all the difficulty and the rawness- softening the walls and the sore spots that comes up with the people you care for.

Why settle for the grey space of disconnection? The depth and richness of what is waiting for us in our shared spaces,  is simply amazing.

“The best part of this was working with another person who was willing and brave enough to take a closer look.” Patty Kelly, Nelson BC

Every time we are working with Shayla as a coach, she is completely present. There is no pre-determined agenda. She creates an open sacred space, that allows for our deepest feelings to come through. She works from a higher/deeper place, that calls to our higher/deeper self as well. We feel truly heard and respected.

Amy & Marcus Garvey, Nelson, BC

 Working with you was one of the best decisions I ever made. It changed my life. I have become unleashed, untethered.  There is connection again, with life. 

Elizabeth Pope, Blewitt, BC Canada

I am offering these free 40 minute sessions in ‘The Art of Intimacy,’ until September 31. If you feel moved to do one of these  discovery sessions with me, please fill out the registration form below.
These sessions fill up quickly.  Please don’t wait too long.

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