Living from the courage, love & creativity of your core

The Heart of Connection: new ways of loving & relating

 Is someone you love driving you crazy? Or maybe your relationship is “okay,” but there is a juiciness… a depth… that is missing.

You feel a “deadness,” there — a lack of real, deep contact. And it really bothers you.

Intimacy is our most natural way of being. All beings are profoundly connected through their very existence. And we learn ways of being together that cut us off from this deep well of intimate connection. There is no effort required in the actual act of intimacy, no work. The work is needed in discovering how we can make ourselves available to intimacy.

Our work together creates an energetic field in which you can learn what fosters intimacy and what obstructs it. The space in which intimacy appears is the space in which real transformation happens. There is an upheaval going on, in our culture, in the whole field of relating. This turbulence is dissolving old structures, and revealing new possibilities. If we say yes to this, we can discover a whole new way of loving and relating. Our relationships begin to serve our evolution and awakening. Opening to the evolutionary force of this love bring us tremendous movement, joy and vitality.

You can find the courage to be yourself, to allow yourself to be seen, heard and known as you are in this moment. And you can learn to embrace another human being in this way. Could this be your time to come out of hiding and be undefended, open and available? Can you feel the joy and freedom of being able to respond in the moment, instead of reacting and trying to protect yourself?

To give you a feeling for what is possible if you commit to working with me, I am offering a one hour discovery session, which is $85.00 CAD for one hour, on skype, in person or on the phone.  To register for this session, just fill out the form below.

 
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 This longing for deep connection, for intimacy, is a holy longing.

It’s not something to turn away from. We experience great joy and freedom when we can dissolve the obstacles that prevent us from being real, open and undefended with others. When we find out how to be ourselves, without hiding or holding back, a natural vitality and brilliance start to shine in us.

You can get stuck in your old ways of relating for a long time.

And here is the good news: As soon as we are ready, we can open to a radically new way of being with each other.  This new way of being is something that most of us have to learn, and keep learning. Which means unlearning a lot of what has been passed down to us by our family, our culture and our ancestors.

Our work together creates a container that holds you,

as  you discover this new way of relating, of slowing down, of being transparent. You will feel it emerging, right in the middle of all the difficulty and the rawness- softening the walls and the sore spots that comes up with the people you care for.

Why settle for the grey space of disconnection? The depth and richness of what is waiting for us in our shared spaces,  is simply amazing.

I was surprised by the level of inspiration and shift that occurred in my life with just a few sessions
Tia Hall, Wynlaw BC

Every time we are working with Shayla as a coach, she is completely present. There is no pre-determined agenda. She creates an open sacred space, that allows for our deepest feelings to come through. She works from a higher/deeper place, that calls to our higher/deeper self as well. We feel truly heard and respected.
Amy & Marcus Garvey, Nelson, BC

Working with you was one of the best decisions I ever made. It changed my life. I have become unleashed, untethered.  There is connection again, with life.
Elizabeth Pope, Blewitt, BC Canada

 

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To give you a feeling for what is possible if you decide to work with me, I am offering a one hour discovery session, which is $85.00 CAD for one hour, on skype, in person or on the phone.  To register for this session, just fill out the form below.

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE HEART OF CONNECTION FREE 30 MINUTE DISCOVERY SESSION